Tips For Becoming A Money Magnet

 

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Do you observe we meet so many people in our life whom we think as Money Magnet and every time you meet them you feel like becoming one and grill your mind for the similar type of opportunities which make them a Money Magnet?

Money nowadays is one of the Biggest player to satisfy your Materialistic needs. Frankly speaking, your present financial status is a outcome of your relationship with your financial attributes. All of us struggling our whole life to earn and attract more and more money and sometimes you feel so demotivated and down in life when you fail to attract those small pounds despite of doing so much efforts which you thought to do in order to attract more in life. Do you wonder why would that not happening..?

 Here are my personal favorites Tips which help you to becoming a Money Magnet.

1) Purify your Mind: Everything in your life depends on the quality of thoughts you have in mind. If you think positive in every situation(I know its bit difficult but not impossible) you can attract anything you desire of in your life and attracting money is not that big deal, you could be forcing money back with your unconscious negative thoughts and beliefs.

2) Treasure Money: Money is hard when it comes to earn it so better you should start treasuring it even if it’s a penny. Appreciate everything you get in life even if its in small denomination never forget those pennies are like money plant they will grow everyday  with your positive thoughts. Practice even the small gesture of receiving and appreciating and Universe by default will train to send you more.

3) Activate your Positive Energies: I define activating positive energies as the courage to let only positive energies to drive your feeling of attracting more in life. Universe is like a deep down Sea you dive in and take as much as you can according to the choices you make. Universe listens to your subconscious mind and gave according to your inner energies. Attract blessings of Universe with your positive energies of fulfilling your monetary desires of becoming a Money Magnet , Ignore what  world thinks about you just need be true to yourself –this is what matters to the Universe .Clean all  the negative clutter from your unconscious mind &  Universe will automatically train to give you more.

 

4) Strength your power of giving: Yes you are reading right, When you all want to attract money somebody has to be a source of giving you and when you accept to become a source for others your “karma” will pay you back without any boundaries It will be in abundance, power of giving not only means money but also term as becoming helping hand for the one in need. Remember you all will attract what you give to the society. Strengthen your good deeds this will always pay you back in long run. Nothing builds a sense of abundance like the ability to give to others!

 

5) Company of Positive People: Surround yourself with positive happy people, Surroundings help your brain to think more in positive way which further enhances your chances of becoming Money Magnet. Observe their mind sets it also helps you to learn about their challenges which they faced while stepping up the ladder and learn from their strategies and start building your wealth by picking up the strong points. It is only in your hands of attracting more and more.

 

 

 

What do you think?

Are you using exhibiting techniques to attract more money into your life? What type of success mantra have you had? Share  your experiences ,your thoughts, stories and questions in the comments box below…

 

“Building Lasting Relationship”

 

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Relationships are important part of everybody’s life. Most part of our life depends directly or indirectly on the relationships we are having and encounter with. We feel happy being in a healthy relationship and vice versa. We depends our happiness on having a close relationship or love relationship that we forget to love ourselves for being the person we truly are. If you really want to work on your relationship first you need to work on you in order to get things right back on track in your close relationship.

Many surveys & research in this particular area shows that being in a healthy relationship not only enhances one’s personal growth but also helps to lead a balanced and happy life. We have seen so many couples who are unhappy with their partners and they  do not aware of their minor mistakes which in turn going towards becoming the bigger grounds of failure if not amend on time, one can overcome these minor mistakes before they turmoil the whole relationship. Following are few things which needs reality check

  • Doubting your partner: Lack of trust in your partner makes your relationship suffocating and your partner starts looking for the option because trust is the basic and very first requirement before entering into any relationship .In case if you have any doubt communication is the key , talk to your partner and clear your doubts. Be sincere & truthful while making conversation and clearing your doubts because it will help you to maintain the respect and dignity of your relationship and also learn to heal your negative thoughts by changing your thought process for your partner.
  • No personal space: We all are so much happy when we fall into the relationship especially when your heart connects with special someone. As time passes relationship also grows becomes mature and life comes on the monotony track expecting that our partner’s space is been filled by you that s/he does not required space anymore, this is the very first thread which you broke having unrequited expectation of being with you no matter what is happening in his or her life taking them so granted that they required to be with you whenever wherever you need them. Why such too many expectations??? Can you imagine by doing this you are loosening your first thread of your relationship for making it suffocating with your lame expectations. Let your partner enjoys their spaces they also have their life without you as well. Let them not disconnect from them, let them not feel that by being in relationship with you they had sacrifice their entire life and space. Imagine yourself instead if somebody put so much clauses on your life to live can you live your life? No you won’t then how come relationship works. Rather you are giving your partner the reason to look for other option.
  • Ignorance of small little things: Everybody has to agree here that the devotion they gave to their partners at the early stages of their relationships is not able to give that devotion as the time passes. They started ignoring and sometimes miss to do the small things for their partners which they use to do when they were in their early stages. They forget that affection and commitment needs to be reminded again and again and it is also necessary to strengthen the relationship further like the same way we celebrates our birthdays that reminds us that one more year has been deducted from our life boat we have long journey to accomplish. Be generous in showing your feelings via texting your partner, gave them short phone calls, token of affection to freshen up your relationship. These small little things are very important for relationship to last forever. Start working seriously on misunderstandings if any exists without wasting anymore time in exaggerating the same.
  • Constant Complains : Do you all like if somebody has so much complain with us directly or indirectly even in our professional life we do not like criticism even if the same is beneficial for our growth and if the degree of the same increases we start looking for change. Then imagine how it feels when you constant complain about your partner in other way try to dominate them or try to control their lives. Everyone has a right to live his/her life and that also a positive life full of hopes. If there is any misunderstanding solve it but stop constant complaining and start appreciating the positive side of your partner by accepting and respect the way s/he is.
  • Loosening your secretive boundaries: Every relationship has its own personal secret space which needed to be between two persons. But sometimes partners after having fights share their experiences or fears with other people without even realizing that they are loosening their bond of trust in which other people just can’t do anything instead of pricking the wound. Do not let them break your secret boundaries. Nobody can sought out anything between you accept you and your partner. Many of the studies show that by letting other people peep into your private space further worsens the whole situation instead of nursing it so maintain your secret boundaries it is called secret because it is meant to be secret.
  • Being over-possessive: Every girl and guy enjoys little possessiveness for each other as it shows their need and love for each other but if this dose increases it becomes over- possessive took no time to turn into brutal shape and murder any relationship  and even haunts the entire relationship. That love and neediness take shape of madness and puts your partner into negative zone. Possessive to some extent is alright as it boosts the relationship and strengthens the desire of wanting your partner in your life but do not haunt them. If your partner meant to be with you s/he will be with you no matter what,  over-possessive rather force your partner to stay away for you and  also you get them on the verge of breaking up. Do not doubt about your relationship if its base is stronger it will grow with the time and if it is not it will break any point of time no matter how hard you try it to stay.
  • Putting all barriers/Restrictions: I have come across so many couples who complains about so much restrictions from their partner’s side like not to go with friends, not to talk to certain people, not to wear that clothing, behave in certain way, not to go anywhere without informing them.. so many barriers and restrictions and still expecting it too work…Kindly rethink..If somebody restrict your life that much one even cannot breathe in such environment then how can any relationship breathe which meant to be a beautiful experience. Do not put any barriers let you both work on adjustment part instead which helps both of you to come closer to each other and strengthen all your threads.

Every relationship is like weaving a beautiful tapestry which everyone can make by working on those colorful broken threads which requires unconditional love, admiration, freedom & appreciation. Many people become hopeless in terms of their relationships and do not even try to repair it. It is fine to end up the bad relationship because it is like stretching the rubber which will hurt you try focus on what you required and desired in life so that you and your partner grow together. Above are the common mistakes which loosen your relationship threads and results in bad experience  by working on these areas one can be able to make their own tapestry worth admiring.

“You are more than just a Name”

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Do you all remember those days when we all use to have so much fun without any tension & stress?  Yes you all are thinking right that was the time when we were kids in school and college. We all remember our first day at college new place, new friends, new session & most importantly now we were free from our school uniforms ready to step into the most awaited life. It was really an amazing time that no body forgets in their life. The freshness is still there in our minds when we recall our college days. Participating in our favorite curricular activities covers the major part of our college days. When girls are into the dance classes and guys are into the sports or vice-versa being Ms or Mr. Fresher having that cheerful faces all around. We all had enjoyed every bit of it and those who missed it they don’t have to worry life is all about making choices, earnings & giving.

As we all get jobs after finishing college we all become very different from ourselves. We no longer enjoy like the way we use to at the time in our school & college. Daily office routine now become part of our life, getting up early ,reach office on time if meeting is scheduled then coming back home late all tired & stressed. And in midst of all we now had forgotten the other person who was alive at the time of our school & college days with that unique talent because of which you were among the popular list.

God endowed every one of us with some special qualities which we call talent and the people who still didn’t discovered yet that is called “hidden talent”. I personally come across so many people who discover their talent late, I am talking about those who did not get the chance to discover due to their personal reasons but when they met that other person in them there was no looking back.

The people who have recognized their talent are excelling and becoming famous. The question is still loading that how we can unlock that unique person who lives nowhere but inside us. Let me take this opportunity because I have recently unlock that person inside me that I can be a good writer or blogger and many people even told me that I can be a radio jockey too J and trust me I am really enjoying it. What I actually did-I have pen down all my favorite activities which I use to enjoy at the time of my school & college days and which were even appreciated by others as well. Then ask your friends or near ones who knows you very well because these are the people whom you get mostly in touch with  directly or indirectly  these are the people who observes you when you also not aware of because your hidden talent is always recognized by others. Do not ever think that hidden talent needs to be big which should make you famous no it’s not about being famous it’s about you what is that unique quality in you that make you and other people happy and content. I have recently met a person who was an amazing storyteller and she loves to spend her weekends with underprivileged children educating them through narrating different stories, further added that she got many opportunities from big publishing houses which might double her chances of becoming famous  but she did not accepted any of their offer (everybody call her mad with whoever she shared this thing) because she feel content in social service by using her talent of storytelling  which she got introduced by her mentor some time back rather she enjoys to bring smile on underprivileged children’s faces instead of working for publishing houses. So we should understand that talent is talent nothing is big or small the only thing we can do is to meet that other person who is living inside us say “hello to beautiful you” …

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 “Every year we celebrate International Women’s day on March 8th with a mission to celebrate the essence of being women and to acknowledge their special deserving status in society. The question is what difference has it made to the position of women in our growing society? Have women become really free bird, and have their struggling journey ended?”

When we talk about Women role in this Male dominating society, the topic hold very deep meaning in itself .A women who plays different roles for different people which helps society to become best version of themselves still struggling to make her own presence in the development and betterment of herself in the society. After gaining equal education, every second time she is fighting for her equal status and recognition. Indubitably, she succeeds in gaining equal rights to their male counterparts globally in different dimensions of society. She has broke all the complex way of thinking which hinders her path of building her competitive place in democratic and sustainable development. It is observed that women  has proven her role in politics, trading and various leadership roles in public and private sector, filling the gaps in both developed and developing countries. She has not limited to household boundaries but also expanding her dimensions giving tuff competition to this male dominating society. She is much more caliber to provide help to the countries who are struggling hard to get back on democratic lane. There are so many women who have establish their name in almost every profession like engineering, medical, hardware, I.T, teaching, politics, sports, scientists and still counting..They have become successful entrepreneurs also who further helping the society in generating employment opportunities, uplifting the women status in society.

When we talk about women as employee or workers and giving them the equal status in the organization, good percentage of women think that most of the time they become the victims of partial decisions related to the equal pay for equal work. They face the problem of gender diversity in the workplace. Although women have progressed, yet looking from a wider perspective, the situation remains questionable. As per the statistics given by CARE, women work two-third of the world’s working hours and produce half of the world’ food it further stated that women earn only 10% of the world’s income and owns less than 1 % of the property which is quite vulnerable. There is a need of platform to the revolutionary mindset for the women is required on long term basis where they also feel protected and appreciated with equal status in society. Every women is colorful as butterflies let them live their life in their own way..

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    “Train your Mind to love yourself”

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Mind is the most powerful tool we all human beings have as it controls our body and we live life based on the quality of thoughts we have. Our life is shaped by the quality of thoughts we become what we think. When our mind dips in an ocean of joy the same reflect in our thoughts and we start feeling joy and happy in every thing and when our mind is in darker side it starts developing negative thoughts. Now the question is how to train your mind to stop from negative thinking and start thinking in positive way. First we should understand the reasons and situations why our mind start thinking in the negative manner. In other words we should first understand the process our mind thinks under different situations. None of us is a negative person by birth its all depend on our environment and situations. Let us consider the factors which lead our mind to these negative thoughts. The very first thing we need to do is not to stop your thoughts because when we stop anything we will rethink it over again and again. Let your thoughts pass like black clouds passing through the blue sky, have you ever noticed black clouds passing and after some days sometimes on that very day sky clears and sun shines, our thoughts are also work like this do not stop them from thinking every thought will pass in its time. Do not give power to your negative thoughts because if you gave them power you are giving them right to ruin your life. On the other hand there are other practical reasons our thoughts develops that is based on the company or circle of people where we spend most of our time and it is very obvious that our mind get distracted with every type of thoughts which you share in your circle or your circle share with you it is called exchanging of your thoughts. Our mind never sleeps it can only be relaxed and calm.You all will notice huge difference in the circle of positive people and negative people under different situations even you notice the difference in the behavior of your thoughts under the influence of these two positive and negative circles which further means that there is a need to keep your circle and surroundings in check because it definitely influence your thought process. More interaction with positive peoples more positive and happy thoughts and less interaction with negative people less negative and rigid thoughts so avoid negative people as much as you can or at least distance your self from their negative aura. Our subconscious mind records every event of our life whether good or bad. Mind is not triggered by one unfruitful or bad thought it got triggered when lots of similar type of events starts happening in our lives and it is only our mind which repeats those events and dominate our lives. Some events happened in life that leaves strong impact on our mind that it rewinds those events in form of thoughts again and again that we start visualizing it in our dreams like if anybody is going through a bad phase in life in terms of relationship or having disturbed professional life or not getting to their goals in lives. It all happens because somewhere in our mind we feel guilty of ourselves and blame ourselves for those events that occur in our life and that are where we surrender to negativity. To get rid of such thoughts first stop blaming yourself and start admiring yourself for such beautiful blessed life you got, those bad events happened not because of you it might happened because of the wrong decisions or wrong persons you have in your life and that’s ok if you commit any mistake we all are human beings and mistakes are the greatest teachers we all learn from them there is this famous quote “Don’t waste time in grieving over past mistakes learn from them and move on”. Committing mistakes are necessary in order to transform you into the better person. Do not be so harsh on your self train your mind by instructing it to forget and forgive and let all the unwanted thoughts go, forgive your mistakes and bad experiences of your life and thank life for teaching you so that you grow and become stronger in life. Train your mind to frame positive thoughts and see positive side of even unfruitful event that if it that bad experience had not happened into your life you will not be able to learn and grow in life, Bad experiences are required in our lives in order to makes us believe in ourselves to make us even more stronger. Life does not end with the events which occur in our lives it is all in our mind that start or end things in life. We admire so many people in our lives and somewhere we wish to become like them reason is that they celebrate each moment of their lives and we attracted towards their happiness and joy in life. So why we cant become one of  them we all have beautiful minds why shall we not stop cribbing and start appreciating little things we have in our lives, we all are intelligent and unique in our own way we just need to work on ourselves by training your mind to love yourself.

“Building Lasting Relationship”

Lasting relationship demands total commitment & unconditional love

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Relationships are important part of everybody’s life. Most part of our life depends directly or indirectly on the relationships we are having and encounter with. We feel happy being in a healthy relationship and vice versa. We depends our happiness on having a close relationship or love relationship that we forget to love ourselves for being the person we truly are. If you really want to work on your relationship first you need to work on you in order to get things right back on track in your close relationship.

Many surveys & research in this particular area shows that being in a healthy relationship not only enhances one’s personal growth but also helps to lead a balanced and happy life. We have seen so many couples who are unhappy with their partners and they  do not aware of their minor mistakes which in turn going towards becoming the bigger…

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