Archive | May 2016

Scary Driving: Une invitation de mort prématurée

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There are over so many articles on road accidents with fatal results in newspapers and internet is flooded with after accident images but still the rate of accidents is increasing every year. Untimely deaths due to negligence in driving especially the victims are between the age group of 18-25 and also the teenagers without driving license staking others life walking on road. Driving itself comes with the responsibility which further includes the people who are passengers and also the people walking on road or using road in any convenient mode. When a driver is not careful while driving or distract due to any reason it gave birth to fatal results resulting to accidents or collisions, some are unintentional but some are due to the driver’s bad driving habits which not only put his own life in danger but also the life of other person on road and the passengers who are driving along with him.

Most of the accidents took place due to the scary or bad driving habits which further diversified as dangerous driving including over speed or tailgating, carelessness; distraction and violation of safety laws are listing the top chart for such accidents.

  • Dangerous Driving – Dangerous driving is one of the leading causes of roadway accidents today which results into dreadful crashes. Indian roads were at their deadliest in 2014 claiming more than 16 lives every hour on average. Over 1.41 lakh people died in crashes, 3% more than the number of fatalities in 2013(source: the times of India) and dangerous driving is one of the common reasons behind such fatalities.

Sub reasons for Dangerous Driving

  • Carelessness– Besides dangerous driving, accidents can be caused due to careless drivers. These include violation of traffic rules and safety laws, ignoring the safety signals and driver’s careless approach to changing road conditions. Some drivers ignore yellow lights, do not bother   to a complete stop at a stop sign, forget following safety laws while turning left and right and biggest mistake “Drive without seat belt”.
  • Distraction– Attending phone calls or browsing on cell phones, texting messages and drinking alcohol while driving are biggest accident prone reasons and comes under distraction activities putting other life on stake besides putting your own life too.
  • Speeding or Tailgating: Survey reports noted over-speeding accounted for about 1.7 lakh crashes and nearly 49,000 deaths and dangerous/careless driving or tailgating claimed another42000-plus lives in 1.4 lakh crashes especially on national highways where traffic is also huge and young generation enjoys playing speed games using loud music, louder the music more the speed putting everybody in danger.

Above are the most common reasons for this daring game called “Driving”.

The key to safe driving is to follow safety laws by being attentive while operating a motor machine. It is required to avoid careless or distracted behavior. Drivers should stop using cell phones or texting while driving maintaining good distance and speed which can drastically reduce the risk of accidents. Poor drivers increase the risk of good driver’s life due to their own bad driving habits which can be avoided by developing good driver in you.

To conclude I remember one quote “Life is always a bumpy road eventually you just have to learn how to drive on it” J

Live-in Relationship in India -Awakening Call

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Live-in relationship is becoming a trend these days and pacing very fast in our Indian society particularly the ratio is high in metro cities. On one hand west cultures are adopting Indian culture to which on the other hand our Indian society is adopting their unjustified culture of living together before sacred union called “marriage”. This live-in relationship is getting quite popular especially among the new generation and they are entering into just as the  trend going in our film industry which further encourging this concept.
Although being involved in a live-in relationship is a matter of individual decision, which, one should be free enough to take but at the same time one must be aware of its fatal consequences as every relationship is based on love, trust, understanding and commitment for whole life, one wrong step turns your life into miserable condition and when it comes to spending whole life with somebody who is a complete stranger to one, what matters more is that the emotional or mental requirements may get fulfilled. In many cases it has been observed that live-in sort of relations also do not guarantee a full life commitment, lack of patience in almost everything are the reasons which are giving rise to such concepts like flings, one night stand & live-in relationships but they forget if marriages can be broken so can live-in relationships be. What essential thing that is terribly missing today in any relationship is love, trust and commitment. Sometimes it takes few moments to understand someone and sometimes one cannot understand other during entire lifetime. Many of these live-in relationships ends with the  alarming experience note  still consider this relationship as  a tool for compatibility test passing wrong legacy to the future generation , do you really think it is that easy to move on after going through so much mental torture in life and with the beautiful feeling called “love experience “.
Live-in relationships are like quick fix thing, they are temporary in nature and involves lot of risks specifically for female partners as this ruin them emotionally as well physically so one has to be careful while entering into this type of relationship as you are directly or indirectly giving or accepting invitation to not so commitment based relationship. Many of people took this relationship in order to check their compatibility, what if according to one feels the compatibility and other don’t and comes in the sufferer zone. Survey has noted higher rate of separation in live in relationship couples as there is temporary romance than the long lasting trustworthy relationships.

 

To conclude Some people might be having good experiences but I personally feel Life is a bit complicated thing. It should be tested  to the  certain limits which involve less risks considering emotions & sensitive feelings.

 

 

Management guru- Gabbar singh

Gabbar Singh was a MANAGEMENT GURU as is reflected in some of the timeless management lessons he delivered thru the movie *Sholay.*
_Read On…They are awesome..!_👌
1. *Whosoever got scared – Assume him as Dead!*
Courage and enterprise are important factors for laying the successful foundation of a growth oriented business.
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2. *How many men were there..??*
It’s important to know the competition and its size. He understood that even a small team can make a difference.
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3. *Hey Sambha, How much is the prize money govt decided on me ?*
Know your market value. Promoting one’s own brand is very important and to be reiterated always.
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4. *Bullets 6 And Men 3!*
Create an illusion where his insurbodinates had a chance of survival but kills them in the next scene. 
*Moral – Perform or ~perish~.*
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5. *Taste the bullets*
Sometimes in the interest of the organisation you have to take hard and unpopular decisions…. 
So sometimes a leader has to ‘fire’ some employees.
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6. *Which flourmill meal  these ramgarh people gave to their daughters.*
Market research is important to understand value propositions !!
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7. *Gave these hands to me thakur.*
Identify elements of threats in the market and take measures to minimise them.
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8. *When is the festival Holi approaching ?*
Conduct advance mapping of key events within the industry and devise penetration strategy to have a competitive edge over your rivals.😜😂🙏😜😂

“How to overcome Stress in any situation”

 

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Frequent headaches, anxiety, fear, depression, increase or decrease in appetite, negative thinking etc are the common yet alarming symptoms of Stress, it not only paralyzed  you professionally but also affects your personal life. Before discussing the precautions to overcome this stigma called Stress let us understand the reasons for “Why are we stressed”? Somewhere answer lies within ourselves because power of fighting with every negativity lies within ourselves. You need to check your environment conditions and the people you are dealing with..Lets take the frequent questions:

 

Que1: When was the last time you laughed whole heartily?

Ans: Research shows that people do not really remember when was that last time they laughed  because they all are so much busy in acquiring the worldly comforts that they had ignored all the joys in their lives which comes free of cost.

Solution: Laugh whole heartily no matters if it comes to cracking jokes or sharing lighter moments at your workplace or at home,do not worry about being funny or hangout with who have good sense of humor. Good Laugh not only lightens the level of stress but also helps in uplifting your mood instantly.

 

Que2: When was the last time you had given time to your hobby?

Ans: Hobby??? Are you serious we don’t get a time to breathe and you are talking about giving time to hobby. Always remember one thing in life” Its not about HAVING time its about MAKING time”- very well written quote. If you have noticed how you make time for watching cricket or partying with your friends?? Because you enjoy doing it just to beat stress for a while but wt happened when you come back from party or the match is over..Stress takes your mind back to worrying and stressing out.

Solution: Start making time for your hobby which you use to do when you were in school or in college be it a dancing,listening to good music or joining some hobby class according to your interest, it will never ditch you in long run. It also helps you in self motivation and satisfaction which leads you towards creating happiness, it acts as instant stress relief . Hobby has nothing to do with how old you are, at what position you are ,it will cheer up the kid inside you.

 

Que3: When was the last time you had taken Work Break ?

Ans: Work break- who will achieve targets and what about my promotion?? My Boss will kill me , my teammate will take promotion on my place –see this is how you are actually increasing your stress level. Now answer me who will live life on your place neither your “Boss” nor your teammates” and as far as your promotion or achieving targets are concerned that you will definitely loose in your stressing condition. Do you really think taking pressure or tension on how and why in life makes you achieve target but yea it will burst your brain cells oneday.

 

Solution: Take a break, plan a good holiday with your family or friends (who are already planning or going high five to them) or take short trips it not always necessary to plan long journeys only weekend trips can also do wonders. Your family will be with you till the end of your life not your targets and promotion- the above thongs only gave you monetary satisfaction which I know is very necessary in leading a luxurious life but at the same time you and your family is also important  . ”Yeh zindagi fir na milege dobara”.

 

Que4: When was the last time you had your Favorite Food?

Ans: Food we all have in our daily lives but our stress level is so much increased that we ate food just to satisfy your hunger, most of the times you people do not even know the actual taste despite if its really scrumptious and satisfy for taste buds.

Solution: Dine out in new restaurants in case you enjoy dining out(changing of places also helps in reducing stress), have your favorite food. For those who like home made food try cooking, cook your favorite food there are so many recipes on via social networking sites like  youtube, facebook, foodblogs etc  ( I know it sounds insane for those who even don’t think of cooking in their dreams  but trust me it will work for sure and you will enjoy it)

 

Que5: When was the last time you made a list on your Accomplishments?

Ans: 95% answer was accomplishments we almost forget it…we have so much stress and pressure into our lives that you forget to cherish your accomplishments and shift your focus to failures in life and results into breakdown.

Solution: Start making List of your small accomplishments which could be related to your personal life like picked up the kids from school (in case you have kids), got groceries, read your favorite book after long time, mediated for certain time, started some activity, participated in the event, helped someone with his/her project or overcome ones difficult situation etc accomplishments are not limited to be written in your resume only. Personal accomplishments are much more self motivating and self improvement.

 

Que6: When was the last time you had spend time with yourself?

Ans: Very rare….

Solution: Spending time does not mean that you need to aloof yourself and sit in one corner of the room. It means to Meditate and talk to your inner self. Study has shown that formal practices of meditation can reduce the risk of stress or depression in people as its effects are comparable to antidepressant medications. Although meditation, alone, doesn’t take away all of your stigma of stress as some studies suggest it can, but it would lengthens the time span between negative thoughts, or at least making your brain a less healthy environment for them to develop. Meditation also helps you to take care of your self  by improving your memory in case you are on medication do not forget to take your vitamins avoid sugar and grains. Focus on healthy eating. Be thankful to GOD for giving such wonderful life that other people in the world dream off, cribbing or complaining will only increase your stress and infect your brain.

 

Above are the sure & personally tried tricks to overcome or reduce stress in every situation. Stress do depends on your environment but since you are also the part of creating that environment so it is responsibility that you should uplift the standard by creating it into positive one.

 

How you like this Article feel free to comment & discuss…New ideas are always appreciated.

“How to Land your dream Job”

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Whenever we think of getting a dream job we all get nervous because somewhere in our subconscious mind we want to crack the interview with flying colors but  fear of losing  in an interview that too for our dream job  make us panic and we fail to gave our Best. There are some Smart tips and tricks which can help you in getting your dream job and also helps in overcome the fear of  Rejection in an interview

  • Understand your Interest Area: Before opting for any type of job first identify your area of Interest and knowledge don’t take any job just for the sake of being employed because somewhere you will land up in wrong job. For Example: In case you are a graduate and you have a interest in banking segment but you got a opportunity to work in other segment with very lucrative salary now what will you do 95% will go for this job remaining 5% will chase their dream job and get placed .Getting a job is not difficult but getting dream job is what makes the difference.

 

  • Make transparent clear Resume: After understanding your area of interest there is a need of making your Curricular Vitae because your resume is just like a mirror of your personality and what you are looking for in the job market. Ensure not to fabricate your resume in order to get your dream job instead if you make transparent clear resume it will help you to grab your dream job more quickly because like you Organizations are also looking for their desired candidates so they will easily catch your loophole if you deceive them thus one ended up in losing his dream job.

 

  • Honest & Positive approach: Always remember one need to be honest and positive both professionally and personally in order to get something in life. Be honest while answering your interview questions and in case you are not able to answer it’s ok never mind be positive about it instead of giving wrong answers. Feel free to express or ask if you don’t understand it or do not know it. Be flexible in approach and organization do like those candidates who are flexible rather than having rigid approach.

 

  • Fear of Rejection : When one think of getting our dream job one become more conscious and nervous about fear of rejection and losing the opportunity which hit our brain cells thus result in anxiety, mental stress & lower the self confidence. To overcome the fear of rejection train your mind to calm down in this situation by taking deep breaths. Tell your brain with confidence that “I feel pleasure to gave interview for my dream job and will gave my best no matter how difficult it will appear” and then Smile. Try this mantra because this is my personal mantra and I have tried it in so many difficult situations and trust me it takes away all my anxiety and helps me in boosting my confidence to perform well. Always remember we all are Human beings and we commit mistakes and learn from them. There is not only one opportunity that will get you dream job but one will get ample of it” if one is open to fight its fear of Rejection in life”.

 

  • Understand your Skill set: Look for companies which are matching your skill set it not only saves your time but organization’s time too. Keep updating your skills as per the your target market standards. If you are looking for dream Job, organizations are also looking for their desired candidates and in order to keep balance develop yourself in such a way that company can see you as their Asset and also would like you to join their organization once they aware of the benefits you will bring in case of get appointed.

 

  • Prepare FAQ’s : Make a list of frequent asked questions in your dream job according to your skill set. It is advisable to do some R& D which will help you to prepare for an interview. Do not take Hiring manager as monster he is equally keen to welcome you in the organization because if he is at Hiring position one must agree that somewhere in profile is more knowledgeable & master of his subject. R&D also broadens the area of knowledge which helps you aware of the trends prevailing in the job market in order to face the competition.

 

  • Negotiations in terms of CTC: Never gave impression to the company that you want job for the sake of earning money although company also knows that changing or joining job for hikes is one of the most common reason but at the same time they do not want candidates who is taking job only for this reason. Do not ask for unrealistic hike, demand as per the industry standards. Demanding unrealistic salary not only keep you away from getting your dream job but it also narrow your chances of getting the one.

 

To conclude, I have ensured covering all the smart tips which may arise during challenging situations for getting your dream job and in case if left would like to have your comments or share your views/opinions or tips on this article(if any) through comment section.

“How to Improve your Communication Skills with Smart tricks”

We all have Imperfections. Nobody is perfect, we all develop some habits and styles throughout our Lives .Some of these are helpful, while some create challenges when working with others. In most cases, it’s just these little habits that get in the way of building Communication.

Here are some simple tricks that will solve most communication issues in the workplace & in our daily lives. I have taken the help of pictures for better understanding. Hope you Enjoy Reading & Implement.

 

  • Eye Contact: This is a very common thing which we all use while communicating with anyone. But there a difference between subtle way of eye contact & glued eyes since our eyes read our emotions in mind & soul. Majority of the people feel uncomfortable about looking intensely into others’ eyes. Look into others eyes with warmness in your heart so the same will reflect by default into your eyes & gave an idea of readiness to the fruitful conversation. Its rightly said “ Eyes are like Mirror of your Heart”.

 

 

 

  • Voice Pitch:When we are talking to our friends that is fine to have multi talks in any pitch because we don not have to bother to get judged what we are saying and  no matter what frequency(slow or fast) we are following but when it comes to “Professional world” pull up your socks your every word & statement will get 360’ degree ratings. In case you are having a conversation in person or on the phone, you must know to have control on your voice pitch, your voice should be audible to the person whom you are speaking not to the environment. Beware of becoming Noise pollutant because your communication etiquettes get noticed wherever you go.

 

 

 

  • Body Language: Our Body also gets a language, it also interacts with people.Some people get fair idea from your body language about how you are feeling, what you want to discuss, what you want to discuss, your every movement of body becomes active while communicating with others. Therefore, it is a very powerful communication while talking to others always pays attention to your body language because people are paying attention to your words & to your body language if they are matching with each other. Many people can judge your real intensions from your body language only. Even we all game only on the back of Body Language. In this picture you can see person seems to be passionate about his ideas the way he has used his hands while expressing and people listening to him equally agreeing to him with smile on their faces.

 

 

  • Facial Expressions: Although it is one of a part of Body language but facial expressions plays a very important role even in our daily lives which you cannot ignore. Even only by looking at your face people start assuming your personality. By studying faces, researchers have matched subtle changes in the positioning of the mouth, eyes and eyebrows to variations in six basic human emotions—happiness, surprise, disgust, sadness, anger and fear.Facial expressions do not just give us away; they may also allow others to experience our own emotions fully.

 

 

To conclude, Communication is an Art which can only master through small adjustments in your day to day lives. Before communicating with others, you need to listen to yourself first just to reassure before you speak..